All good, I can see your point. Thanks for the welcome :)

My blog is anonymous for several reasons, the most serious is because of family reasons. My immediate family all use pseudonyms online. We don't want to be contacted by a certain relative, and we are easy to find due to our unusual last name. I'm more than happy to email you my name/age/workplace/sexual preference/colour of underwear if it means that much to you.

Hey. It's my blog. It's blue because I thought it was the best (free) stock colour combo offered by Wordpress for that layout.