Indeed, re Stephen's point. And that *could* depend on the resident re nzlemming's point...

Kia ora tutti

being back at high school with the same old “cool kids” bullshit in a different box.

That is what it feels like from my 'side' too. Whatever that is. Added to the feeling like a traitor because I'm seeing a chap (to lesbian friends), a tourist when I've shown any interest in mmmmboobies, and a traitor that I'm seeing anyone at all (to single friends) ...

I offered to take my own toaster oven to a 90% lesbian party once, but was told it was too meta... ;-)

And I have no problem with anyone being a slut. It’s a freaking spectrum after all. We can’t all cluster in one place, it’ll tip over and we’ll fall off.

Also a t-shirt.

"may" have been over-dramatizing????? ;-)