Thanks, Suze - it just made sense at the time, so I'm glad to hear it resonates for others too. Please do spread it around and we'll see where it finds a home.
Totally off topic but I had to
A drunk driver who killed a woman has been spared prison after a judge said her agoraphobia would cause her "difficulties" if she was locked up.
What? So as a punishment are they going to make her stand in a shopping mall?