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Okay, do people here think that short skirts on teenage girls are NOT regarded by society as sexually attractive/suggestive? Or are we saying that yes, it is seen as sexually suggestive and it shouldn't be, or are we saying that short skirts on school girls and sexual signals are utterly unrelated?
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Craig Ranapia, in reply to
Ah, yes... right about now the North Shore is throbbing with hundreds - nay thousands! -- of slutty boys flashing their lovely legs, shorts straining to restrain their taut beefy thighs, as they flaunt their tanned arms for all to see. If you'll excuse me I need to have a cold shower and gouge my eyes out with a teaspoon.
Will nobody think about the dirty old gay men!
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Will nobody think about the dirty old gay men!
I'd rather not if it's all the same to you ...
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Lucy Stewart, in reply to
Okay, do people here think that short skirts on teenage girls are NOT regarded by society as sexually attractive/suggestive?
We think, I'm pretty confident in asserting, that it's neither helpful nor useful - for the girls or society - to reinforce the conviction that what women wear is a guide to their sexual availability.
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Tess Rooney, in reply to
That's fair. But do you think it's possible?
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Craig Ranapia, in reply to
I'll restrain myself. Just for you -- thankfully any erotic allure is quickly dissipated by the teenage propensity to be irritating beyond reason. The Victorian tradition of packing your children off to boarding school until they could hold their liquor and use a fish fork properly is much under-rated.
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We think, I’m pretty confident in asserting, that it’s neither helpful nor useful – for the girls or society – to reinforce the conviction that what women wear is a guide to their sexual availability.
I'm just popping out to get Lucy a pony.
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Lucy Stewart, in reply to
That’s fair. But do you think it’s possible?
It is if we start by not telling them that if they wear short skirts they’re really telling all the boys they want them, which inevitably leads to sex and regret. Or perhaps by not telling them that it’s their job to not be “provocative”. You know. Small steps.
I’m just popping out to get Lucy a pony.
I can't have a dragon instead? *looks hopeful*
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kneed to knowing...
There does appear to be a lot of
hemming and whoring here...
(he thighed)...the upshot seems to be the
borderline proposal that
"if you turn it up, sewn, the seeds are..."
as Yoda might say (if you forced him) -
I don't think I can wait for the appropriate thread to post this, so I'll just chuck it in here now and hope noone gets too offended:
http://privilegedenyingdude.tumblr.com/
And if anyone is offended by this, well, that's because you're racist.
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Craig Ranapia, in reply to
Serious question: I very seldom wear long pants. (In fact the last time was at the last Great Blend.) Would anyone view that as saying anything about my "sexual availability" - and if not, is there anything behind you reasoning besides my gender?
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Craig Ranapia, in reply to
I can’t have a dragon instead? *looks hopeful*
You can haz time share on my next kitteh – which will be carefully trained to be a brain-melting mash up of Mephistopheles and Hello Kitty.
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giovanni tiso, in reply to
That’s fair. But do you think it’s possible?
Whatever we do, we must be realistic. Short skirts are going to be perceived by some as sexually attractive/aggressive, therefore as a sign of availability. Of course since we’re talking about a school and there are educators involved, it might be considered an opportunity to teach that particular cohort that sexy doesn’t mean available. But is it realistic? I mean could we convince them all? Probably not. Let’s not even try. Let’s in fact preach the very opposite of that.
While we’re on the subject, should we coach effeminate gay male pupils to talk and behave in a more stereotypically manly manner? I’m asking because the way they carry on might be taken by some other males as an excuse to bully them. Of course it is no such thing, and the fault resides entirely with the bullies. But is it possible to dispel this notion? And if it’s not, should we even try? Probably not. Again, we’re at a school after all – best ignore any and all teachable moments and reinforce prejudice instead.
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Lucy Stewart, in reply to
You have time share my next kitteh – which I intend to select on the basis of pure evil.
Awwww, Craig, you're such a sweetheart.
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"It is if we start by not telling them that if they wear short skirts they’re really telling all the boys they want them, which inevitably leads to sex and regret. Or perhaps by not telling them that it’s their job to not be “provocative”. You know. Small steps."
Yet again, I think it's context. No one assumes netballers are gagging for it because they wear short skirts - it's practical. Yet what about woman's beach vollyball which clearly has a male following because of what little they wear. I think we need to be realistic about social meanings that clothes portray.
Would anything a girl wears ever be unacceptable to you? Say she turned up to school on mufti day wearing a corsette and stockings, would this still be acceptable to you? Because to me it seems like a sliding scale of acceptabtility.
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Would anyone view that as saying anything about my “sexual availability” – and if not, is there anything behind you reasoning besides my gender?
Since you had to ask; that totally depends on how high your hotpants go when you're kneeling.
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The little buggers...
Will nobody think about the dirty old gay men!
Why can’t we be honest about the fact that some boys dress to attract the male gays?
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@Craig - I once went to a party where one gay man was wearing skin tight silver hotpants and nothing else, okay I lie, maybe a bow-tie too. Are these the kind of shorts you are wearin? Because if so, then yes, you look like sexually available.
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Craig Ranapia, in reply to
Be careful what you wish for, young man. There is someone out there who will Photoshop my head onto Kylie Minogue’s body for a gold coin.
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Lucy Stewart, in reply to
Would anything a girl wears ever be unacceptable to you? Because to me it seems like a sliding scale of acceptabtility.
The phrase you're actually looking for there, Tess, is "slippery slope". We wouldn't want to mess up the bingo scoring.
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It's not a slippery slope, it's about context and social definitions of signals that certain clothes or ways of dressing send. Togs...undies :)
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I got some of my best lessons in sexism (as in omigod, people think like that? How should I deal with it?) at high school. It's where people learn about life, which is why conservatives get angsty about sex education curricula. It would be nice if by the time my daughter goes to college she was learning about how to treat people fairly. It's a better lesson than how not to be one of those Terrible Sluts.
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I just googled "sexy school girl". It was short skirt world folks.
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There is someone out there who will Photoshop my head onto Kylie Minogue’s body for a gold coin.
I'm spinning around on my chair as I type.
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I just googled “sexy school girl”. It was short skirt world folks.
Your point being?
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