Hard News: Family Matters: a post about 2020
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2020 has been a shit year. What I have learned is that a pandemic crisis is a revealer and amplifier. It revealed the strengths & weaknesses we have as a society. Can't paper over the cracks during a crisis; you'll get found out real quick. The kindness and compassion got amplified. But so did the extremists and the grifters. Thankfully in Aotearoa we got very little of the latter.
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Russell Brown, in reply to
It revealed the strengths & weaknesses we have as a society.
There wasn't really room for it in this post, but I've been thinking about that in terms of the people who've succumbed to conspiracy theories. We reveal our individual vulnerabilities too.
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Ian Dalziel, in reply to
David Farrier has done some sterling work in this area this year...
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I think Soon is right - the pandemic revealed people.
As a scientist doomscrolling the scientific literature I was aware of the pandemic a couple of months before it really hit us here. It revealed my own low tolerance for folks who were ignoring the coming problem or pretending they personally didn't need to do anything about it. I sent some terse and probably career limiting e-mails during that time.
As it became clear that NZ wasn't magically immune to the virus spreading, it revealed a health system that was remarkably underprepared. Who knew that a couple of decades of underfunding would make us particularly vulnerable.
Fortunately, and somewhat to my surprise, the politicians in charge listened to the scientists and health professionals and acted on their advice. NZ had to respond that way we did because we simply had fewer ICU beds and fewer trained staff than most of the developed world. And remarkably that pressure revealed a leadership capable of making hard decisions quickly and willing to change tacks as new information came to hand.
It revealed a science community willing and able to drop everything to contribute. Yes there were naysayers, but for the most part scientists made themselves available to help, to explain, to support, to explain again and to just be part of society. We know many of their names now, for some that's proven to be unpleasant as some trolls came out from under the bridges, but for the most part it's nice to see experts treated with respect and their expertise valued.
On the local front as lockdowns came into force we suddenly saw what our city could be like without cars - families out walking and cycling - people just calm and willing to smile and wave - from a social distance. And yeah that distance actually felt social.
Sadly we've lost that again as Auckland drivers reassert their control of the city. I find it strange that the same people who smiled and waved from a bike are now swerving in front of me to get wherever a few seconds faster.
And now we wait for us and the world to get vaccinated. In some ways I think the next 6 months will be harder. We have friends and families in places where the virus is effectively uncontrolled. We watch as leaders around the world with less skill than our own make appalling decisions that will result in thousands of deaths. Our lives are a weird kind of normal, survivors guilt might be overstating it, but there is something wrong about being able to have our holidays while this continues.
Sorry shouldn't end on a down note. I think NZ has come through this so far stronger than it was a year ago. I think we value things a little bit differently now and I think that's a good thing. Yeah there are things about NZ that are still badly wrong but it feels like there is confidence we can fix shit that is broken - is that revealing a covert optimist?
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Sacha, in reply to
NZ had to respond that way we did because we simply had fewer ICU beds and fewer trained staff than most of the developed world.
Amazing what got us here, eh. Hoping the new Minister Andrew Little does not squander the opportunity to reshape our health system now in ways that count.
Russell, I really feel for what you have gone through advocating for your mum. Nobody should have to do that, and certainly not this year. Thank goodness for family.
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Russell Brown, in reply to
Russell, I really feel for what you have gone through advocating for your mum. Nobody should have to do that, and certainly not this year. Thank goodness for family.
Thanks buddy. I pondered one more complaint to the Health and Disability Commissioner for a bit too long, but I realised last night that an OIA request, to check whether CCDHB actually made the changes they promised, would be a good thing to work on over the break.
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I guess I’ve been a little insulated from the (justified) existential angst many have been feeling this year. This is how I normally live. Apart from having to queue 2 metres apart to get into the supermarket, Level 4 was barely noticeable for me. I’m not the social type, preferring to connect online and that didn’t change, though it became a lot more strident. What this year revealed for me was the deep streak of stupidity that runs though our country (and many others) and what it revealed in me was an ever-lessening tolerance for its practitioners.
Kia kaha, Russell and Fiona, and Sunset Sam – oops, I mean James and The One Who Does Not Like Being Discussed.
Have a great summer.
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Russell Brown, in reply to
Kia kaha, Russell and Fiona, and Sunset Sam – oops, I mean James and The One Who Does Not Like Being Discussed.
Heh! He did once discover I'd written a blog post about him. He was okay about it :-)
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Sacha, in reply to
an OIA request
Then do a follow-up one about the process of creating their response. Nippert's M.O. I think.
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I want to thank YOU for your posts, both incidental on social and long form, like here. The community that social media provides, the voices we trust who can articulate better than us how we feel and what we can do, have been so very important this year. You are one of the most reliably enjoyable and - omg I’m going to have to say “relatable”
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I have had an account here forever, and although I scan the content semi-regularly I haven't commented in, well, ages. Russell, I know this was a deeply personal post, but also found it outwardly looking and very helpful for others. Also wanted to let you know, that NZ has its challenges (including lockdown) but please don't forget how normal your lives have gone back to being... I am in Canada and in my 10th month of working from home and only leave the lifestyle block for grocery shopping and takeout once a week. We're limited to household bubbles still, and even over summer where "in person" dining was allowed, we did not (we're both Biomedical Scientists - that crazy thing led to our current second wave). Kia Kaha to you and your family Russell and wishing you and planet earth peace, health and happiness for the Christmas season and beyond into the New Year.
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It’s been a year for the history books, eh? Hoping your mum is ok and things settle down, for all of us personally and collectively. Lots of bad, but one or two good things from 2020 too. NZ publications crawling out of the hole, the dark leveraged shadow of international hedge funds is definitely hopeful.
I miss this “place” a lot. The very best net life. Arohanui PA whanau. -
Certainly a mad time for everyone, although great to see life returning to NZ media that looked down for the count.
It is quite weird, still, to see how widely NZ/Aus/Taiwan have diverged from everywhere else. In London we are once again under a stay at home order and presumably by tomorrow the rest of England will return to that and things are similarly bad in Northern Ireland, Wales and much of Scotland. Let's hope those vaccinations continue to roll out quickly!
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Meanwhile in Japan, Suga is continuing to deny the need for a lockdown as the third wave continues to spike out of control at levels that will overwhelm the healthcare system within a few weeks. Vaccination may start for healthcare workers in February, but at projected rates of rollout, won't reach the full population for another year, while pressure mounts to reopen face-to-face classes with the population sector currently most actively involved in spreading the virus. And true to form, Japan has just closed its borders to nonresident foreigners again to "keep out the new strain", after it's already here and spreading.
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Thank you for these thoughts, Russell. I rather regret that I have drifted away from PA, when it once used to be an important part of my online life. I recently read an interesting book ‘Online Afterlife’ and I must not let this site become one of my digital ghosts.
It was an interesting end to a vexatious year; the most unusual moment was when we sat on a Northland beach, under a pohutakawa in full bloom, and watched a live stream of our daughter Catherine Rose marrying her Japanese boyfriend Kaggy in an anonymous office in Tokyo, Lots of signing of forms and stamping by a fellow who looked rather like a janitor.
Regarding the NZ response to the pandemic: I am contributing to a book on children’s experiences of COVID and it is very tempting to celebrate the NZ experience, especially when I also need to comment on the response in countries such as Sweden, Denmark and Australia. But I do feel proud to be a New Zealander.
Good that Fiona is now ebike ready; I am attempting to persuade Josephine to get one, Did some great riding up in Northand in December.
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Steve Parks, in reply to
I rather regret that I have drifted away from PA,
Same. I remember that episode of Mythbusters where they did myths suggested from reddit users and I learned that Reddit was considered - or described itself as - "the front page of the internet".
For me, PA was the front page of the internet, at least in New Zealand.
Not sure why I drifted away but some country singer could write a song about it.
As for "digital ghosts", Dude, this is a family friendly website. Go make your Japanese horror movie pitches somewhere else.
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Kumara Republic, in reply to
Same. I remember that episode of Mythbusters where they did myths suggested from reddit users and I learned that Reddit was considered – or described itself as – “the front page of the internet”.
For me, PA was the front page of the internet, at least in New Zealand.
Not sure why I drifted away but some country singer could write a song about it.
The rise of social media, methinks?
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Maybe. Could also just be the passage of time on any group of people. Eventually they drift apart unless strong efforts are made to keep them together. Russell made those efforts for many years, well over and above any call of duty. I'm glad to remember the good times fondly and don't expect them to return.
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That's a nice sentiment. It's a shame that PA is no longer the discussion forum it once was, but I am glad that I was (am?) part of it.
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In some ways, not others. Clearly, we could have done without the pandemic and negative cannabis referendum outcome, but on the positive side, abortion and euthanasia have both been decriminalised, the Ardern government was elected for a second term, New Zealand First disappeared, and we finally saw the (elderly, flabby and orange) end of Donald Trump. Still, insofar as the pandemic went, we fared better than the United States, United Kingdown, Canada and Australia.
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Just wondering how many of the folk here found themselves decreed non-essential at the outset.
Was that a concern to anyone ?
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Thanks for the article Russell. "Rediscovered" Hard News as I was cleaning up an old domain I no longer will use - well, I'm finding it hard to let go. I'm also usually not someone who posts, but I wanted to say it's great to see you haven't lost anything.
2020 was a shite year in many respects, but then had it's upsides as well (for me). After managing to score a redundancy in 2019, paid off the mortgage and decided on 12 months of travelling. I would have done that quite differently had I known we'd all run into a pandemic. Luckily I was home for Xmas 2019 so got "stuck" at my parents farm and got to spend more time with them that I intended, which was nice. Was a perfect place to spend lock down. Had to reluctantly head back to Sydney where I've found it extremely difficult to get work. Apparently 26 years experience in the IT industry might be offset by ageism - people tell me that's what it is, but I'm not sure I want to believe it. 2020 ended with a bang - hospital for an appendix that turned gangrenous and infected my lower bowel, so that turned into a major op. Nice way to spend Xmas. But hey, I'm alive, recovering, starting a business. Onwards and sideways... keep up the good work!
I don't agree with the covid-19 approach here in Sydney after living through the NZ response, but they've managed to dodge enough bullets that it's manageable. Would have been nice to stand at the bar in pubs though. It's also depressing listening to the Liberal govt spout on about economy (business) vs lives when there's no economy without people... but that's not a conversation I want to rehash. Australia can be a funny place
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Sacha, in reply to
I have always been non-essential.
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I want to thank YOU for your posts, both incidental on social and long form, like here. The community that social media provides, the voices we trust who can articulate better than us how we feel and what we can do, have been so very important this year. You are one of the most reliably enjoyable and - omg I’m going to have to say “relatable”
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Farmer Green, in reply to
“I have always been non-essential. ”
Naturally.
But being declared “essential” , by government decree , meant that one’s freedoms were practically undiminished .
I suspect that this was not the case for those decreed “non-essential”.
I take it that you found the decree to be reinforcing.
Or irrelevant.
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